Real sex begins on your mind, not on your body. The idea of sex can be so much satisfying than the real touch. That’s s why even masturbation can be better than a “quicky”. That’s why Bondage is so more intense than just penetration. It’s your imagination, your dirty mind that makes that special. It’s your fantasies. It’s not about genitals touching, it’s about you. You can make everything erotic.